“Put away from you crooked speech, and put
devious talk far from you.”
- Proverbs 4:24
“Let your speech always be gracious,
seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.”
- Colossians 4:6
“For every kind of beast and bird, of
reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no
human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.”
- James 3:7,8
“It may seem too obvious to say, but
Genesis 1 makes it plain that the first words ever spoken were spoken by God.
Language is not a human invention to be used in whatever way serves our
interests. If God is the first speaker, then language is his creation. This
means that our ability to speak was given to us by the Creator and it exists
for his glory. Everything we will ever say belongs to him and should be used
for his purposes. Words, in short, have a high and holy calling.”
- Tim Lane and Paul Tripp, Relationships,
A Mess Worth Making, p. 71
“It is time for many of us to confess that
we have not known the way of love. Our words have hindered, not helped, what
the Lord is seeking to do. We have been controlled by the passions and desires
of the sinful nature and failed to represent Christ’s character. We need to cry
out for grace to speak loving words as his ambassadors.”
- Paul Tripp, War of Words, p. 229
“Please forget the words I just blurted
out,
It wasn’t me, it was my strange and
creeping doubt
It keeps rattling my cage.
And there’s nothing in this world to keep
it down.”
- Radiohead, I Can’t
When I think about the things I’ve said
over the years my knees get weak. James calls the tongue a restless evil that
is full of deadly poison. I can still remember hurtful things I’ve said over
forty years ago. A sharp word, a critical judgment conveyed to others, a terse
argument, gossip designed to form an opinion – these, and more, are in my
collection of spoken sins. My tongue is a restless evil. And there is a sinful
satisfaction when the tongue does its work. To refrain from evil speech and to
‘tame’ the tongue is no easy task. It is restless, and the sinful heart is not
satisfied until the tongue has its way. When we speak we are simply giving
verbal expression to the restless evil already formed in the heart. Our speech
reveals our heart and for me this is sobering. By our words we have the power
of life and death. When I think about my words I am grateful for the thorough
and complete work of Christ’s substitutionary work. Christ’s passive obedience,
which is that perfect obedience Jesus rendered to the Father in fulfilling all
righteousness, has been credited to my account. His perfect speech, sinless
tongue, and unsinning heart have been imputed to me. I no longer bear the just
judgment God declares against my sinful thoughts, words, and deeds. And yet,
God’s sanctifying work is not yet complete in me. I need reminders to speak
graciously. I need my speech, even now, to be redeemed. God, as the first
speaker, must redeem my words, and He must do this continually by making my
heart new. It will do no good to reform my speech with no change to my heart.
I’m praying for God to renew my heart day by day and make it evident by the
things I say.
Lord, let the
words of my mouth be an evidence of the efficacy of your work taking place in me.
-DJM