Thank you – just two words, but two words that can change the trajectory of a disposition, a conversation, a marriage, or a life. When I reflect a posture of genuine gratitude there’s something that happens, not only in me, but around me. When I am authentically thankful (and folks can tell the difference between authentic thankfulness and its imitation), something happens in the relational equation. In other words, when I express heartfelt gratitude and appreciation for something you’ve said or done, you know it, and I know it.
We often forget or we neglect to be thankful. An old Puritan preacher said it like this, "The Lord knows how apt even the best of men are to forget the spring of their mercies."(John Owen). There’s a warning here that thankfulness needs to be cultivated and grown. Even the Apostle Paul made it clear that thanklessness is related to distance and an adversarial relationship to God (Romans 1:21). When it becomes apparent to us and to others, ingratitude ought to set off internal alarm bells that something isn’t quite right.
Expressing gratitude demonstrates an awareness, on our part, for kindness or favor received. To express gratitude acknowledges that someone has intervened for our benefit. A conveyance of thanks is a recognition that someone has gone beyond, and acted for my good.
What is it that sets us apart from other sentient beings? Apart from the obvious, some have said that only man has the capability to think God’s thoughts after Him. I’m also of the opinion that intentional thankfulness separates us from brute beasts. We are those who declare gratitude to God for His manifold kindnesses. We contemplate God’s mercies and then verbalize thankfulness. The character of the Christian ought to be one of pervasive and effusive gratitude. As we consider Divine favor, we simply cannot help it.
In the great work of the gospel, thankfulness is a work of the Spirit of God in the heart of the Christian. In fact, an unthankful Christian is a contradiction in terms. Our thankfulness is to be shared with others, and declared to others, and is to be infectious, as Christ’s word dwells within us. Paul’s exhortation to the Colossians is this, “Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving.” (Colossians 2:6-7) Receiving Christ and walking in him, rooted and established in the faith, is to provoke us to great thanksgiving.
The last Thursday in November we celebrate a national holiday. Dating back to the earliest days of our nation, a day was set aside for the specific purpose of offering thanks. It was to be a corporate and perpetual reminder that gratitude was to be brought to mind and expressed in thanks to God for His favor. Today, it seems almost out of place. There are few extant nations that engage in such practice, and in our current environment national thankfulness seems far from us. Our social media seems to be full of complaint, and often in our own lives there seems a shortage of true thankfulness. And truthfully, Paul’s warning to the Romans sounds too close for comfort.
In a world where this Thanksgiving holiday seems almost incoherent and genuine thankfulness is seldom seen, for the Christian, there is no excuse. Thankfulness is inherent to authentic Christian character. The work of the Spirit in the Christian creates new life that, by its nature, excels in gratitude.
Christian, not just this Thanksgiving, but in all of life, let your thankfulness be made known, not just to God, but to one another. There is much to be grateful for. And, who knows, your thankfulness may just be infectious.
Dan and Judy Morse live near Prineville, Oregon. Over the years Dan has done bi-vocational work, church planting, and served as a senior pastor in several churches. He now serves as pastor at Madras Reformed Church, and also with InFaith as a Missionary Pastor in Central Oregon, assisting small and rural churches. He can be reached at danjmorse@icloud.com

